something they use abroad is they use fascinators. just have fun and play up the accessories, both of these are under $100. . >> for autumn's dress, you could tie a lovely ribbon around her wat. autumn and melanie, thank you so much. and what we think is a black tie optional. and we have now nancy coming up in a real sweet number. >> everything you saw, this is a metallic, shimmeng, almost likeif you're not sure with a black tie optial, how dressy you should be. go for a dress that has a little bit more weight to it. she can wear this to a holiday better too later on. and it's from maggie london who makes great party dresses. >> and the bubble down below. >> you don't want to go too short for a wedding. i thinkt's great at the knee, just above the knee. and you can leave the jewelry behind with a dress like this beca. >> now we have our final category and that's casual or festive attire >> this is julie and her mom. they for a modern wedding, you never know where the venn dwru may be. yes, you can wear pants, you can pull out a black